The Law of Attraction is based on very sound principles of self-development and self-care. Whenever you become what you want, you also get everything that comes from the space of being that person.
The Law of Attraction is constantly responding to the degree of self-worth that you have for yourself. What you vibe is what you get!
If you vibe rich, you attract riches.
If you vibe healthy, you continue to attract good health.
If you vibe beautiful, you attract the attention and the compliments that come with the territory of being beautiful.
Focus on becoming that person for whom matching things happen.
Also work on the extent of deservingness you feel; self-empowerment, self-love, self-worth, all go together hand in hand.
Self-adoration is not conflicting with being nice, compassionate or loving to others. In fact it all works together. You will find that you can be the best 'you' when you love yourself unconditionally. This self-love will allow you to be happy and in this happiness you can actually do more for the people around you.
Self-love does not mean being selfish and irresponsible. For example, self-love includes being someone who sticks to his/her commitments (not to one's personal detriment), because the very act of sticking to your commitments means that you take yourself seriously (not in a bad way) but that you respect yourself and the work that you undertake to complete. There is a sense of satisfaction that comes with being able to do things on time and efficiently. It actually fosters your courage to take on bigger tasks, and complete them well. This strength is contained in your vibrations and is picked up by the Universe and reflected back to you.
Whoever you become is what you attract to you.
For example if you feel that you are a really good wife, mother and employee, your vibrations state it clearly and it is your point of attraction.
Any feeling of lack or not feeling good enough is picked up and reflected, and so it is really good to empower yourself and really feel that sense of self-worth.
If there is one thing that you do for the next few weeks, please do spend time loving yourself and feeling that you are perfect. You know when you adore yourself, your world has to mirror this back to you.
Meanwhile spend time getting into the correct space for good to happen. Energy shifts really quickly when you work with the Law of Attraction. I see this happen again and again in my work.
Love yourself completely because you are a divine creation, worthy of love.
Come to this space of feeling "I am amazing!" and then let the world catch up to this truth because it is the truth!