Are you ready to commit to a man finally? Does it feel like a guy is playing games with your emotions or are you left wondering if he will ever sweep you off your feet? Maybe you have been pushing to deepen the relationship and are hoping that he will hurry up. If you want to be able to move things along and get him to make a commitment to you then there are some things that you can do to make it happen.
- First of all take some time out and get away for a while.
- Then, let yourself feel the excitement of being pursued by him.
- Make sure that the times you spend together are wonderful.
If you do these things in this order you can change him from being afraid to commit to a relationship to being eager to commit. You need to understand that most men aren't really afraid to make a commitment when they have a good reason to. If you are always available then there is no need to as he thinks you are not going anywhere. If you can find other things to do with your time and not always be available then he will realize that he misses you when your not there.
But you don't want him to feel frustrated so that's why you need to enjoy the excitement of him wanting to spend time with you. So when he calls let him know you are pleased and looking forward to seeing him. Don't overdo it but it will let him know that you are still interested in him and encourage him to keep asking you out.
Lastly make sure you let him know that he is missing out on having a great time when he is not with you. Plan exciting times together and give him your full attention when your together. Make it feel like being with you is so much better than not being with you.
If you can take these three steps then he will stop taking you for granted and come to appreciate the time you spend together. He will want to spend more time with you and start thinking about commitment so he doesn't lose you.